Why Princess Mako Left Japan’s Imperial Family

Princess Mako, granddaughter of Japanese Emperor Akihito, gave up her title, wealth, and life in the imperial palace to marry a lawyer she met at university. As the ninth woman in the history of Japan’s imperial family to wed a commoner, she became a symbol of rebellion against centuries-old traditions. Today, along with her husband Kei Komuro, she leads an anonymous life in New York City.

The Price of Love 

When Princess Mako’s engagement to Kei Komuro was announced in May 2017, Japan was stunned. The eldest daughter of Prince Akishino, granddaughter of then-Emperor Akihito, and niece to current Emperor Naruhito, chose to marry an „ordinary” lawyer she met while studying at the International Christian University in Tokyo. The couple first met at a student exchange event. Komuro had proposed to Mako back in December 2013.

Japan’s imperial law is ruthless to royal women. While men may marry non-aristocrats without losing their status, women lose everything—their titles, privileges, succession rights, and membership in the imperial family—as soon as they take their marriage vows. Mako was well aware of these rules when she married on October 26, 2021.

The princess was entitled to a dowry of about 150 million yen, which at the time equaled $1.3 million. She refused to accept this money. This decision shocked observers, who expected the young couple would at least secure their financial future before starting a new life together. Mako, however, made it clear that her choice had nothing to do with material calculation.

Childhood Under the Spotlight

Mako Komuro was born on October 23, 1991, at the Imperial Household Agency Hospital, located within the imperial palace complex in Tokyo’s Chiyoda district. 

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A few days later, on October 29, her father named her and spoke words that sound almost prophetic in retrospect, wishing his daughter would walk through life naturally, without adornment and never losing her natural beauty.

From an early age, Mako was a regular presence on Japanese television. The media followed her every step, from her days at the exclusive Gakushūin School in Shinjuku, where she began her education in April 1998. She completed the entire Japanese school system in this prestigious institution: elementary school in 2004, junior high in 2007, and finally high school.

The princess developed interests unusual for a member of the imperial family. She was fascinated by fine arts, paleography, and architecture. She held a special passion for Japanese painting. Her elementary school graduation project focused on aesthetics in artwork found in the historic Shōsō-in and Tōshōdai-ji temples as well as the Imperial Palace in Kyoto. In 2008, she publicly admitted to being a fan of musical groups affiliated with Johnny & Associates.

An Educated Princess

Mako’s education went far beyond Japan’s borders. In summer 2010, she studied English at University College Dublin in Ireland. While there, she had an informal meeting with then-President of Ireland, Mary McAleese, and visited Northern Ireland. These experiences exposed her to the Western world and likely influenced her later life decisions.

In March 2014, she graduated from the International Christian University in Mitaka near Tokyo with a bachelor’s degree in art history and cultural heritage. During her studies, she obtained a Japanese museum certification and a driver’s license. Even before earning her bachelor’s degree, she spent nine months at the University of Edinburgh, from September 2012 to May 2013, studying art history.

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In September 2014, she returned to the UK—this time to the University of Leicester. In January 2016, she received her Master’s degree in museum and gallery studies. That same year, she enrolled in doctoral studies at her alma mater in Tokyo. Her academic career as an art historian was developing impressively until love changed everything.

New York Instead of the Imperial Palace

After marriage, Mako and Kei Komuro moved to New York, where he works as a lawyer. The couple consciously chose a life away from the media frenzy they experienced in Japan. Their approach stands in stark contrast to another high-profile royal exit: Prince Harry and Meghan Markle, who, despite leaving the British royal family, remain in the spotlight through books, streaming platform deals, and high-profile interviews.

Mako chose a different path. Royal family analysts emphasize that if you met her on a New York street, you wouldn’t recognize her. The former princess and her husband have truly disappeared from the public radar, proving it is possible to leave royal life behind and achieve genuine anonymity. Their story shows that privacy is possible even for those born into the world’s most-watched families.

After Mako’s departure, the line of succession to the Chrysanthemum Throne changed. Her place was taken by her younger siblings. Prince Hisahito, the only son of Prince Akishino, has become a key figure in the future of the Japanese imperial house. Princess Kako, Mako’s younger sister, remains a member of the imperial family, but she too will face a similar choice if she wishes to marry outside aristocratic circles.

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